恋爱之前

爱情是两个人的事情，如果是以结婚为前提的交往，在开始之前，要想清楚一些事情

家庭条件方面
yourenkenenghuijuedezheigewentiyoudianxianshile，danshishishijiushiruci，yaolejieyigeren，xianyaolejietadejiating。zhiyoutongyigeshehuijiecenglimianderen，cainenggouzaizhangyuanderenshengzhizhong，jianshaoyinweishuangfangjiatingdejiazhiguanhezerendequbie，erdaozhidejiatingmaodundefasheng。

性格能力方面
xinggeshanghubu，nenglixiangdang，zheicaishiwanmeideaiqingdadang，zhiyoulianggerendougandao“meiyouleduifang，zijideweilaicunbunanxing”deshihou，zheiduanhunyincaishihexiehubude。gerennenglishizonghexingde，juebuzhixianyuzhuanqianhuozhegongzuodenengli，haiyouzhaogujiating，shenghuosuosui，renjijiaowangheluoshidaoyixiejimaosuanpidexiaoshifangmian。

价值观是否一致
duiweilai（gongzuo、jiating、mengxiangdeng）deyuqihejihuashifouxiangfu； duixiayidaidejiaoyujihuashifouxiangfu；duiyixieshehuirenwu，gongzhongrenwudejiazhipanduanshifouxiangfu。

家庭的阻力
jiatingdezuli，jiatingdemaodunshifouqingchu。ruguobuqingchuzehuiyouhendadezuai。

生活乐趣
liangrenzaiyiqizuidadeshenghuolequshishenme，zongbunengshixiabanleyigezaijiadayouxi，yigezaijialikandianshiba。