夫妻关系,相处

在婚姻关系里，没有和谐的相处之道，那么你们这段关系是走不长远的！夫妻是要携手走过风雨、共度人生的伴侣，要多有理解和包容~那要维持夫妻关系的融洽，要注意哪些方面？

1不要用命令的口吻

经常能听到两口子说话的时候使用“niyinggai”“benlaijiushiyao”“nijiwo”dengdengciyu，zheixiecizairenherentinglaidoudaiyouhenqiangliedezhuguanyishi，bingqieqizhongdeqiangyingxianeryijian。ruguoyifangchangchangyongzheiyangdekouqishuohua，lingyifanghuijuedezijizaijialiyidiandiweiyemeiyou，sihaomeiyouganjuedaobeiduifangsuozunzhong，yinerzaixinlijiuhuichanshengdichuqingxu，shuangfangzhijianyehuiyougehe。

2不要把自己的想法强加给对方

每个人都有每个人的想法，但是夫妻之间很喜欢玩“xinyoulingxi”zheigeyouxi，jiushizirenweihenlejieduifang，nenggoucaizhongduifangdexinsi。pingchangzheiyangwan，kenenghuizengjinxiaoliangkoudeganqing，danshiruguozaifashengmaodunchongtudeshihouqueshiyibaliren。tebieshinvren，zongshibuzijuedibanyan“qingganzhentan”dejiaose，ruguozhangfuyoushenmedifangzuodebuhezijixinyi，jiuyaotuilitazheiyangzuojiujingshichuyuyizhongshenmexinli，ranhoubazheizhongdanfangmiandexiangfarendingjiushiduifangdezhenshixiangfa。

而男人在听到这种推论的时候，总是会觉得女人不可理喻，心里会有一股无名之火，要么是懒得解释，要么是干脆顺着她的话说“dui，wojiushizheiyangxiangde，zenmeyangba”。

wulunshinazhongfangshi，duiyujiekailianggerendewuhuidoushiyidianbangzhudoumeiyou，fanerhaihuiyouhuoshangjiaoyoudexiaoguo。jianyimeidangzheishihou，lianggerendounenggouxinpingqihedishuochuxinlidexiangfa，erbushihuluanquchuaiceduifangdexinsi、wangxiajielun。

3不要波及长辈

你跟你爸一副德行！”“nijiuxiangzhenima！”zheizhonghuayujueduishifuqizhijianzuidadejinji。zaidaduzailengjingderenruguotingdaorucibuzunzhongjiarendehuayenanmianbuhuishengqi。

一旦把旁人尤其是长辈亲属牵扯进来，那么问题就严重了，对方会认为你根本就不尊重大人，也许就此会对你心存芥蒂，甚至因为心寒而逐渐疏远你。“xiao”shiyigerenzuiqimayinggaijubeidedaode，ruoshilianzheiyidiandouzuobudao，suoyoudegoutongdoushiquleyiyi。

4彼此让一步

fuqibushichouren，fuqishiyaoxieshouzouguofengyu、gongdurenshengdebanlv，suoyiweishenmekeyirennaidirendezhongshang，quebunengbaorongairendewuxinzhishini？fuqizhijianyinggaishihujinghuai，erbushizongxiangzheyaozenyangcainenglingduifangchenfuyuziji。

weileyaozaikoushezhizhengzhongyijiaoshuyingqibushitaiyouzhileme？dangniyonghendudeziyanzemaduifangdeshihou，yexuyouneimeyichaneinigandaoleshenglidekuaigan，danzhihouni？nishifouyehuigandaohouhui，juedezheijiachaodegenbenjiubuzhide？guanghuademubanbeidingshanglexuduodingzi，jishihoulaibadingzibaqule，mubanyezaoyibumanshanghen。